
I've noticed a lot of Moms on Miss Bimbo lately and was hoping we could start a thread for Moms?? A couple things I was hoping people could help me with...
My daughter is 14 months, but I was recently told that due to her being "precocious, she is already exhibiting terrible two behavior", but how do you discipline a 14 month old??
She used to sleep well through the night but lately has been waking around 4 a.m.! Maybe I'm putting her to bed too early (usually between 7 and 8pm)? I don't think I am, but I also don't want her to get used to having a bottle or attention when she wakes up in the middle of the night.
She used to eat everything but has become very fussy lately...all she wants is fruit (especially blueberries, strawberries, raspberries, and cherries) and bread or pasta. sometimes she'll eat fish, but not meat or chicken, and lately the only veggie she'll eat is cucumbers...which is basically water LOL...Any tips for finger foods or ways to hide veggies?
Hopefully we can all help each other??
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try buying that fruits and veggies that look like candy

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I don't think I've ever seen veggies that look like candy...Do you mean the vegetable chips?
And actually she's never really had candy, so I don't know if she knows what candy looks like!
At this point I'd try anything!
How old is your daughter? she's adorable!!! I love the pic with the hat.
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yes that sounds like the terrible 2's already, I have two girls ages 2 and 3. Have you tried all the " Graduate" stuff in the baby section at your local store? They have all different kinds of healthy snacks and meals
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Hi there both of your daughters are beautiful! My son is almost 13 months. I have a couple suggestions, but every kid is different so good luck! We have this juice here's that's a fruit juice, but it's got veggies in it too and you can't taste them! My little guy loved the strawberry banana one. This is what it looks like:
They also have Blueberry, Mango Pineappe, and Raspberry Orange. I also found a good way to get him to eat the veggies was sneaking them into stuff, like soups and stews. He had a little while there where he was pretty much refusing to eat veggies at all unless I hid them in food. Now he is a bit better though. Weird thing is he prefers canned veggies over the fresh or frozen ones. Maybe because they are more tender and mushy.
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I have a 16 month old boy, a 3 year old boy, and an 8 year old boy! My youngest is also starting to have terrible 2 behavior…he has a temper like no other and HATES for me to stop him from doing anything he wants to try! He also has a “thing� with handling any foods that aren’t hard (cracker-like) and won’t eat them. He will not allow himself to be fed and will only eat certain things. I spoke with his MD and he’s still gaining weight appropriately and all his blood levels are where they’re supposed to be (had him checked because my 3 -year-old was anemic for a while) so he recommended just to keep trying but not to worry overly much about it…it’s a phase and he’ll grow out of it. My 3 -year-old LIVES off mac and cheese!! lol
My youngest also started waking up 2 to 3 times a night about a month ago wanting a bottle in the middle of the night and with me having 2 other children and a full time job I caved and gave it to him so I could get back to sleep. He did that for about 3 weeks and is now back to going to bed around 9 and sleeping up until 9 to 10 the next morning. I just have to keep on a very strict schedule with respect to bedtime or he gets overly tired and fussy waking up in the middle of the night again.
Children are a blessing but they’re also A LOT of work!! lol
Hang in there!! 
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My current problem with my son is that he had a bad cough and was rubbing his ears and crying so the doctor put him on an antibiotic for 10 days. Well he's done the antibiotic and still has the cough and is still rubbing his ears. Yesterday when he woke up from his afternoon nap he had hives all over the one side of his face. They worried me, but I put some cool water on his face and let it dry and they started to go away. Well then he had dinner and a bath and shortly after his bath he got them again, but on the other side of his face. So I sent my husband to pick up some Benadryl and gave him a dose and put him to bed. Kept checking on him through the night to be sure he was ok. Then when he got up this morning it wasn't AS bad, but he still had a few of the little hives on his face. Weird thing is I can't think of anything different that he had yesterday! Everything he ate he's had before with no problems. So any ideas?
I don't think you are putting her to bed too early. One of my baby sleep books said somewhere between 6 and 8 is a good time for that age group to go to bed. My little guy is a night owl. He is usually up until like 9 or 9:30, but then he sleeps in until about 8:30. From what I read they should be getting between 10-12 hours of sleep at night, not including their naps. My son had a few nights recently where he was doing that too. I don't know if he just had bad dreams or what, but I would go in and get him and then calm him down and bring him into our bed until he was more calm. Once I could tell he wasn't upset anymore and started looking tired again (which only took maybe 10mins) I put him back in his crib and he went back to sleep until like 9am! This has only happened a few times, but each time I did the same thing and that's what happened.
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my daughter will be 14 months old this friday 
unfortunately mb is targeted for people who are not moms LOL
there are many many many websites for moms though. cafemom being one of them
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my daughter is for 14 months and my son is 3, The fruit im talking about is actually not candy but dried fruit and vegetables in different kinds of adorable shapes, finger food. my daughter loves them, well my daughter eats everything (even paper
) they are from gerber or beach nut

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Kennydra - The hives almost sound like they're related to body heat. My youngest had something similar happen to him. But when you got him up he had them on his face (were they on the side of his face he was sleeping on?) and the bath causes heat as well which could have made them reappear. The fact that cold compress and dry skin makes them go away makes me think heat related AND that could be becoming active because he's still fighting of a virus. The cough is always the last to go and I've been told many times before that a cough can last up to 3 weeks after the other symptoms are gone! Poor guy! I hope your ped can help him be more comfy!
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my daughter has a night routine she drinks at 7pm she drinks a bottle of milk, at 7:30 i bathe her with a nice fragant watermelon shampoo. change her into her favorite dora pj's. By 8:10pm she is in her crib "talking" to me, while im reading her favorite dora book. she is tucked in, in her dora sheets, with a dora doll next to her all the lights go off and by 8:50 she is asleep and wakes up at 7:00 am to watch dora the explorer she loves her

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BritneyLindseyHilton wrote:
I've noticed a lot of Moms on Miss Bimbo lately and was hoping we could start a thread for Moms?? A couple things I was hoping people could help me with...
My daughter is 14 months, but I was recently told that due to her being "precocious, she is already exhibiting terrible two behavior", but how do you discipline a 14 month old??
She used to sleep well through the night but lately has been waking around 4 a.m.! Maybe I'm putting her to bed too early (usually between 7 and 8pm)? I don't think I am, but I also don't want her to get used to having a bottle or attention when she wakes up in the middle of the night.
She used to eat everything but has become very fussy lately...all she wants is fruit (especially blueberries, strawberries, raspberries, and cherries) and bread or pasta. sometimes she'll eat fish, but not meat or chicken, and lately the only veggie she'll eat is cucumbers...which is basically water LOL...Any tips for finger foods or ways to hide veggies?
Hopefully we can all help each other??
Hi i have 2 children also, a boy who is 3 1/2 and a little girl who is 5 months. I was just wondering if your little girl still has a little sleep in the afternoon, sometimes if you reduce there nap time you will find they sleep a bit better at night. 
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LataraLee wrote:
Kennydra - The hives almost sound like they're related to body heat. My youngest had something similar happen to him. But when you got him up he had them on his face (were they on the side of his face he was sleeping on?) and the bath causes heat as well which could have made them reappear. The fact that cold compress and dry skin makes them go away makes me think heat related AND that could be becoming active because he's still fighting of a virus. The cough is always the last to go and I've been told many times before that a cough can last up to 3 weeks after the other symptoms are gone! Poor guy! I hope your ped can help him be more comfy!
Hmm yeah that makes sense. He is napping now so when he gets up I will have to check if he has them again. The weird thing is though that my hubby keeps our house like an icebox so I don't know how he could be warm? I will ask my doc though and she was she says. Yeah he had a cold about a month ago and then came the cough, but when it didn't go away after a few weeks I took him to the doc and then the rubbing the ear started too which I figured he got an ear infection after the cold which I read is common? But even after the meds he's still coughing and I've even found that he has been wheezing now and then 
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LataraLee wrote:
These are my guys:
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Needless to say....I NEED MY OWN BATHROOM! lol
Awwww SO cute! Don't ya just love little boys!
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hey
my son just turned 2 the 9th of june
and terrible 2's kicked in early here to!!
He's always been a very busy baby
(yesterday somebody actually told me it wouldnt hurt to give him some medication for children that would calm him down a bit! seriously
He's a very social child and will tell you hello & goodbye & give kisses anytime
a bit too much for my liking
he takes hands of total strangers and just walkes of with them
He's not an idiot either.
He counts to 5 in 2 languages and when he needs to give kisses he makes sure of who he's going to kiss first
attractive ladies get a kiss right on the lips, men get kisses on the cheek
anyway
the sleeping part: i let hem cry! (i do make sure everything is ok first)
It sounds harsh but toddlers are so much smarter than you think
and with my son it helped
when he was little i used to go in when he was crying, and it only made it worse!!!
So now when he has those periods of waking up at night again (yes he still does have them) i leave him
and the first night he cries for hours
day 2 a bit shorter
day 3 shorter
and by day 4 it usually stops
what you can do to is go in to her room put her down, tell her its time to go to sleep again and no little kiss of no little hugg because all a toddler wants when they wake up at night is attention
maybe something drasticly changed in her environement that makes her wake up
...........
The eating part i'm sorry i can't help, i still have problems getting my son to eat to!!
He loves hot dog sausages
and if i would let him he would eat nothing else!!
AT HOME THAT IS
because when he's somewhere else he eats whatever they feed him
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Hey everyone,
My little guy just turned 2. He started the "terrible 2s" early as well. He had his first full-fledged tantrum yesterday. It was an Oscar winning performance. He won't eat much either. He's not even on the growth chart! A good cookbook to check out is "The Sneaky Chef", it tells you how to hide fruits and veggies in everyday foods. I've made several things out of it and they were surprisingly good! Can't even taste the purees you use. Hope this helps for those little ones that aren't eating their veggies!






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Awwwww! Wheezing isn't good but it can be treated fairly easily! Mine did that once and they gave us a nebulizer and some diluted albuterol to open up his lungs. It worked wonders! AND most pediatricians can perform this in the office to see if it helps and if so then viola....you have a treatment! This wouldn't mean he had asthma...it would just mean he needs a little extra help getting that cold out of his chest!
My hubby keeps our house cold too but children stay so warm just from their body heat and just laying on something for an hour or so can cause enough heat to activate sensitive skin...i.e. hives when sick. He so cute BTW!
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zanaicadiz wrote:
hey
my son just turned 2 the 9th of june
and terrible 2's kicked in early here to!!
He's always been a very busy baby
(yesterday somebody actually told me it wouldnt hurt to give him some medication for children that would calm him down a bit! seriously
He's a very social child and will tell you hello & goodbye & give kisses anytime
a bit too much for my liking
he takes hands of total strangers and just walkes of with them
He's not an idiot either.
He counts to 5 in 2 languages and when he needs to give kisses he makes sure of who he's going to kiss first
attractive ladies get a kiss right on the lips, men get kisses on the cheek
anyway
the sleeping part: i let hem cry! (i do make sure everything is ok first)
It sounds harsh but toddlers are so much smarter than you think
and with my son it helped
when he was little i used to go in when he was crying, and it only made it worse!!!
So now when he has those periods of waking up at night again (yes he still does have them) i leave him
and the first night he cries for hours
day 2 a bit shorter
day 3 shorter
and by day 4 it usually stops
what you can do to is go in to her room put her down, tell her its time to go to sleep again and no little kiss of no little hugg because all a toddler wants when they wake up at night is attention
maybe something drasticly changed in her environement that makes her wake up
...........
The eating part i'm sorry i can't help, i still have problems getting my son to eat to!!
He loves hot dog sausages
and if i would let him he would eat nothing else!!
AT HOME THAT IS
because when he's somewhere else he eats whatever they feed him
i was told by my daughters doc. that its not good to let them cry (only if ts a reason, hunger, hurt etc.) you just have to find a routine that's good for all of you you, your partner,baby.
im hispanic so my mom has all these beliefs that letting the baby cry is good for them so their lungs will develop. i was young when i had my son i was 16 so i listened to her a big mistake my son had to have surgery on his testicles because he got 2 hernias on each testicle so i learned my lesson.

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LataraLee wrote:
Awwwww! Wheezing isn't good but it can be treated fairly easily! Mine did that once and they gave us a nebulizer and some diluted albuterol to open up his lungs. It worked wonders! AND most pediatricians can perform this in the office to see if it helps and if so then viola....you have a treatment! This wouldn't mean he had asthma...it would just mean he needs a little extra help getting that cold out of his chest!
My hubby keeps our house cold too but children stay so warm just from their body heat and just laying on something for an hour or so can cause enough heat to activate sensitive skin...i.e. hives when sick. He so cute BTW!
Thank you, so are yours! Yeah my little sister had to used the nebulizer too. She had really bad croup and the wheezing and it wouldn't go away, but that helped her a lot too. A girlfriend of mine's little guy had RSV and then pneumonia and after using the nebulizer with flovent she said it helped him too. I think I will ask her about it and let her know that there is a family history of breathing problems. My dad had horrible asthma as a child and my hubby and I both had bronchitis as children too. It's just hard b/c you feel so helpless when they're sick!
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I know what you mean!!! You just want them to feel better! The history of asthma in your family actually makes him more prone to have a breathing problem....asthma is more common in families with histories of such.
As for RSV...my youngest was in one hospital with RSV while my Dad was across the street in another hospital in ICU at the end of his 5 year struggle with cancer. I was hopping back and forth between the two checking on my son and then running back to my Dad's side. In my life I had never felt so helpless and lost than at that moment. One of the kindest things that happened to me during those three days was the nurses taking care of my son (my husband stayed with my son 24/7) saw me come in to sit with him so my hubby could go get some breakfast and brought me soap to take a shower in his room while she watched him. She told me she knew my circumstance and wanted to help. The world is so full of wonderful people!! Luckily my son was released on his second morning due to the breathing treatments he received! Worked miracles!
So SORRY for the thread jack!! 
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